Seven Week Distance Breakthrough Experience for a Couple

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Connect To Your Potential – Breakthrough Experience for a Couple

Understand and Achieve Your Relationship Potential

Uniquely tailored to you and your relationship.
Delivered by both of us, to both of you.

7 Week Distance Breakthrough Experience for Couples – £1,497

  • Have you lost the peace, harmony and love that used to exist?
  • Have you lost sight of one another’s needs, and don’t know how to meet them?
  • Does communication constantly erupt into arguments?
  • Is there a lack of romance, intimacy and sex?
  • Do you feel unable to be yourself, or have lost sight of who you are, within the relationship?
  • Are you attempting to overcome infidelity?
  • Are you trying to figure out whether to stay together, or part company?
  • Have you tried Relate, mediation or therapy, but the talking approach didn’t help much?
  • Or perhaps you have a great relationship already, and would like to take it to an even deeper level of intimacy and understanding?

If this is where you are, then rest assured you’re by no means alone…

Our Couple’s Breakthrough Experience provides a solution that is right for you and your relationship.

When two people come together, their relationship is a combination of two unique personalities and a mix of masculine and feminine energies which are somehow meant to know how to dance together in perfect harmony. It’s not even possible to achieve this on Strictly Come Dancing without practise and knowledge of the dance moves, so it can be very difficult to achieve in a relationship. Suffice to say, it’s extremely rare for a couple to encounter no challenges along the way. Sadly, most couples never really resolve their issues, and it’s been estimated that only 2% of relationships end up being as good as the couple imagined when they first began their journey together.

It doesn’t have to be this way… our Breakthrough Experience has been developed to provide you both with clear and insightful solutions that will allow you to transform your unique relationship in a way that is right for you.

You will be provided with the tools and understanding to fully embrace and live up to your relationship potential. Follow-up support by telephone, Skype or e-mail can also be arranged.

Note: while we discuss masculine and feminine energy (we all have some of both), and the chart below refers to ‘his’ and ‘her’, what we share is equally applicable to all couples that seek to build a lasting and loving relationship, whatever your sexual orientation. We treat you as individuals and help you to learn about yourselves – authentically.

With the right insight and understanding, a deeply connected relationship can be enjoyed by two people who love each other and choose to apply what they learn. It takes a level of real understanding of who you both are as individuals, an insight into what men and women actually want and need from a relationship, and the skill to communicate effectively. If this is applied with a willingness to work together as a team, then the depth of love and acceptance that can be experienced is astounding. It’s joyful and freeing to discover how to be yourself in a relationship, and how to handle your partner in a way they adore. It really does bring out the best in both of you. As you practise applying everything you’ll discover on this Breakthrough Experience together, everything will begin to fall into place and the synchronicity between you will become effortless. You will be provided with The Complete Owner and Operator’s Guide to Your Unique Relationship.

You will take away a brand new understanding of:

 

  • Your Ultimate Intimate RelationshipYour Individual Personality Types, which will allow you to understand yourself and each other in a way you’ve never been able to before.  You’ll receive your full personality profiles, explaining the behavioural patterns your personality play with both of you, and you’ll understand for the first time how these patterns have played out in your relationship.  You’ll also discover how to recognise, catch and change the negative patterns, and move beyond them.  For more information you can read our article The Most Empowering Question You Can Ask Yourself – Who Am I?
  • Your Relationship Needs – we all have 10 fundamental needs to co-exist happily within an intimate relationship. These are additional to an individual’s everyday needs for life. Problems arise when couples don’t know what their partner’s needs are, or one expects the other to guess. The priority of these needs tend to differ for men and women. Meeting each other’s individual and relationship needs is essential to creating the emotional well-being that allows both of you to be at your happiest and bring out the best of your underlying personalities.
  • Your Values – and how much you are living your values. This will help you understand both your own and your partner’s view on life and why you respond to certain situations the way you do. It will also define the areas requiring greater attention, where changes need to be made and provide a clear picture of where you can support each other.
  • Your ‘Baggage‘ – the limiting beliefs, fears and un-resourceful/unhelpful patterns from past experiences and upbringing, which have unwittingly come into your relationship with you. Each Enneatype reacts differently. It will become clear how these have unconsciously have contributing to some of the outcomes you’ve experienced so far. We provide you the tools, insights and confidence to overcome them.
  • Your Languages of Love – how you both like to give and receive love, and how to meet in the middle so that you both feel loved. It is so simple and so effective, particularly when combined with your needs.
  • Communication and Teamwork – how to communicate with your partner in a way that really works.  Also, how to diffuse anger in your partner, and even how to argue effectively when the need arises. You’ll be able to speak with your partner in their own language. By this we mean according to their personality type and gender, and communicate so they listen and you feel heard. We’ll give you the skills to make sure that you both feel heard, acknowledged and understood.
  • The Differences Between the Sexes – understand and harness the natural and very necessary differences between the sexes.
  • Polarity – masculine and feminine … What a woman needs from a man, and what a man needs from a woman.
  • Flirting – how flirting with your partner can be brought into everyday communication, and the incredible difference it makes.

Adult couple laughing and huggingThere is an art in knowing how to share your truth with your partner, and to be able to do so whilst feeling liberated and free to be yourself. Every individual has a positive and negative side to their personality and behaviour, yet when in a relationship we so often expect the best from our partner without realising the immense part we play how they show up around us.

In essence, we will provide you both with the awareness and insight to create the optimum outcomes for YOU. You will learn how to bring out the best in yourself, your partner and ultimately, in your relationship – and very importantly, how to avoid bringing out the worst.

We know without doubt that if a couple are experiencing difficulties, it’s not a true reflection of the potential for their relationship. On the contrary, we have found more often than not, that it’s simply a lack of understanding of the differences between their personalities, and the acceptance and handling of those differences, that causes the problems. Coupled with a lack of clear communication, this can often mean that one or both feel their needs are not being met, leaving them feeling unloved, frustrated and misunderstood.

Here’s a short video explaining how we work with our clients to remove the ‘blind spots’ and above-mentioned ‘baggage’ from their self-awareness and relationships.

 

As the video explains, if you have blocks in certain areas of your life, it is because there is something you’re blind to which is creating that block. These are called blind spots. When a couple get together, there are two sets of blind spots attempting spoiling communication and connection. We work with your inner-worlds to address these blind spots, releasing you from their hold so you can enjoy a deeply authentic relationship.

The change is fast and lasting; the work we do with you permanently alters your perception and understanding of what is possible. The process is tailored to you as two unique individuals. It is not a ‘one size fits all’ relationship solution.

As well as a new understanding and awareness in your relationship, you will also gain:

  • Emotional intelligence and self-awareness – a new and in-depth understanding of yourself and others. Most couples gain fresh new insight into their children’s personalities too.
  • An improvement in all of your relationships – intimate, family, friends and colleagues.
  • A quieter, more centred mind; far less anxiety and mind-chatter than you’ve been used to living with.
  • A framework within which to positively embrace the best of yourself.
  • The ability to confidently and authentically be yourself in any situation.

Here are two powerful testimonials from a couple called Paul and Ash, who attended our Couple’s Breakthrough Experience together:

Paul: We are in our 50s and needed to overcome a stuck relationship that was close to break-up. We wanted some concentrated relationship coaching that would give us a chance to find what we had lost. The thought of an hour or two per week for 8 or 10 weeks marriage counselling did not seem to be the level of commitment that our 23 year relationship deserved. Di and Andy’s Breakthrough Experience for a Couple was what we chose instead. They are a great couple who look after you very well over several days of coaching. We stayed 2 nights with them, had lovely meals and some very nice walks, but most importantly learned a great deal about what makes a relationship tick, and what doesn’t. It was game changing stuff and has given us an understanding of what we each need and don’t need in order for our relationship to really develop. I think we have a great chance of sorting out our difficulties. It’s now up to us to use what we have learned. I don’t have any reservations about recommending you contact Di and Andy. They are really switched on and adapt to different couple’s needs. Thank you both, Paul.

Ash: Hi Andy and Di, I would like to say that the weekend was a gift to me. You managed to support and mentor us through some difficult issues we’d held onto. The significance to me was that the problems and issues between us appeared intractable at both an emotional and logistical level and we both came away with real hope and determination to move on together in life with new positive bonds of mutual love, understanding and appreciation of each other. It was so good to work with you as a couple committed to this work and actually practising what you preach. It helped me enormously to hear about the experiences you went through together – the highs and the lows. You gave us your time, empathy, energy and enthusiasm and really looked after us through it all and showed a way forwards which we would not have found through the conventional couple counselling – which we have tried several times! I would recommend you to any couple who are facing issues in their relationship. A heartfelt thank you. Ash”

How it worked for us as a couple…

For us on a personal level, understanding and applying everything we’ll share with you on this Breakthrough Experience took our relationship from a place of challenges, to one of understanding, harmony and a much deeper love. Until then, the differences in our personalities and our habitual responses had been the main players in our relationship. As a result we experienced challenges during the first 18 months. We were determined to make it work, because we loved each other so much. And so, it’s thanks to those challenges that we discovered the tools that transformed our relationship. We came to understand who we really are as individuals, why we are that way, our trigger points, needs, values, behaviour and responses. From there, we were not only able to accept our differences, but to love them and learn from them. We were both able to recognise when our triggers were responding to life rather than our true selves, and we learned how to handle those triggers in ourselves and one another. As a direct result, we learned how to bring out the very best in each other, and of course, in ourselves too. Same two people – entirely different relationship.

Diane says “Once we applied this awareness, everything changed. And I really mean everything. Andy says that when I look at him, I look directly into his soul. He says he has never been ‘got’ at this level before, and he describes my understanding of him as a profound naked truth. I know exactly how he works beneath the surface – his personality type, his values, needs, languages of love, beliefs, motivations and trigger points, and as a result, I know why he responds to things the way he does. And so he feels completely accepted for who he is, and free to be himself. He describes it as liberating. 

It also means that I understand what can potentially bring his energy down, and why. I know that I love being around him when he’s happy, because all his wonderful energy comes flowing directly back to me and into our relationship. So with the understanding I have of who he is, I am able to communicate with him in a way which brings out the best side of his nature in every situation. In essence, I have learned how to handle him in a way he adores, which also enables me to diffuse negative energy in him almost instantly if he’s had a stressful day. He is still in awe of how I manage to achieve this so quickly and effortlessly. Of course, he does exactly the same for me, and I adore being handled in this way. As a woman, it leaves me feeling deeply understood and loved, and quite frankly, swept off my feet.”

It is this insight and the ability to create this kind of understanding and connection with your partner that we will provide you with as a couple. As you can probably tell, we are deeply passionate about everything we’ll be sharing with you on this Breakthrough Experience…

Here is what more of our Breakthrough Experience Couples had to say:

I’d say that your course is the missing link in all the different styles of personal development (and relationship development) being taught in the world today...Good afternoon Andy and Di, I hope that you’re having the most amazing day. Right now feels like the perfect time to say thank you both for everything. It’s taken a while to digest all that happened on the course, as coming face-to-face with myself (especially after 52 years!) was a shock, and not a particularly pleasant one!  I’ve discovered a whole new way of living thanks to you both. I know what I want, why I’m here and, more  importantly, how to live in love with M****. I now realise that my fears were holding me back and, indeed, paralysing me. I also discovered my limiting beliefs which really shocked me as most of those I believed had been dealt with years ago! How wrong I was! In summary I’d say that your course is the missing link in all the different styles of personal development (and relationship development) being taught in the world today. I’ve been on a personal development journey for over 15 years and your course was, without a doubt, the thing that we all need the most as human beings. It’s a life-changer. Thank you again for all of the gifts that you’ve bestowed upon me directly and indirectly and for waking me up to levels of love for M**** that I wasn’t even aware existed. With love and thanks from us both. J & M, Entrepreneurs, Birmingham

We learned more about each other in three days than we had over the whole relationship! Prior to attending the Breakthrough Experience our relationship was distant and had become stagnant after 10 years together. We both had expectations of divorce. We now know that our relationship is very special and we can make it what we want. We learned more about each other over three days than we had over the whole relationship! We will now continue to use the tools and techniques learned to continue to grow and improve our relationship. It’s work in progress, but we both now want it to work and there is absolutely no way we are heading for a divorce, in fact we are falling in love all over again. Thank you Andy and D”. K.C. female, Coach, Gloucestershire

I am falling in love again every day… Having been married for 8 years, dating for 16 years, we had most definitely become so comfortable with each other that we were swaying more towards taking each other for granted. Adding two young children into the mix, careers, financial responsibilities etc, we could see that rather than growing closer we were beginning to grow apart. Our communication was rare and when it did occur it was laced in blame and feelings of neglect. The Relationship Breakthrough has been a huge blessing to us. Something shifted in us both – all I can say is that I walked away feeling a deeper sense of understanding of my wonderful husband, respecting his needs and learning how to communicate with each other. I feel that I have the tools now to build on not just a happy marriage, but one that is filled with joy with my soul mate. I am excited and enthusiastic about growing old together and truly feel that I am falling in love again every day. Thank you so much Di and Andy – you truly are a wonder! S & P, London

We now understand how to speak to each other and be heard and why we have different needs… W.C. male, Banker, Gloucestershire

The relationship experience far exceeded my expectations. I now feel confident to speak to my partner in his language and to fix myself, not him. You have changed my life! Female, early 30s, Graphic Designer and Mum.

We learned more about each other in three days than we had over our whole relationship! Prior to the Breakthrough Experience our relationship was distant and had become stagnant after 10 years together. We both had expectations of divorce. We now know that our relationship is very special and we can make it work. We will now continue to use the tools and techniques learned to continue to grow and improve our relationship. It’s work in progress, but we both now want it to work and there is absolutely no way we are heading for a divorce, in fact we are falling in love all over again. Thank you Andy and Di”. K.C. female, Coach, Gloucestershire

 

To Book Your Couple’s Breakthrough:

The price of the 7 Week Distance Breakthrough Experience for Couples is £1497.

To book, simply contact us and we’ll get the ball rolling.  See FAQ’s section below for more information. We offer a no obligation telephone, Skype or Facebook video call to answer any questions or concerns that you might have.

Read about another client’s powerful journey through his Breakthrough Experience: One Man’s Journey – A Beautiful Breakthrough…

Your course is the missing link in all the different styles of personal and relationship development being taught in the world today... Right now feels like the perfect time to say thank you both for everything. It’s taken a while to digest all that happened on the course, as coming face-to-face with myself (especially after 52 years!) was a shock. And not a particularly pleasant one! The experience felt like friends welcoming us into their home with the purpose of awakening us to what they themselves had found. I’ve discovered a whole new way of living thanks to you both. I know what I want, why I’m here and, more  importantly, how to live in love with M****. I now realise that my fears were holding me back and, indeed, paralysing me. I also discovered my limiting beliefs which really shocked me as I thought I’d dealt with them years ago! How wrong I was! I’ve been on a personal development journey for over 15 years and your course was, without a doubt, the thing that we all need the most as human beings. It’s a life-changer. Thank you again for all of the gifts that you’ve bestowed upon me, and for waking me up to levels of love for M**** that I wasn’t even aware existed. With love and thanks from us both. J & M, Entrepreneurs, Birmingham

Who are we? Andrew and Diane Nicholson

andy-and-diDiane Nicholson is a much sought after teacher who has touched the lives of many with her empathy, inspirational talks, workshops and her own inspiring story. Diane is an International Speaker, Coach, Trainer, Workshop Leader, Master Practitioner of NLP, Enneagram Teacher and Advanced Hypnotherapist. Diane was also Susan Jeffers’ first approved ‘Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway®’ trainer worldwide, and delivered over 200 Feel the Fear workshops to more than 2000 people since 2007. She has been empowering others to live a life filled with purpose for many years after stepping through her own fears and limiting beliefs. Her purpose in life is to help others reach their fullest potential with a sense of confidence, love and full self-awareness. She has achieved phenomenal results.

Andrew Nicholson is a Relationship Coach and Mentor who knows what it takes to make lasting positive change. He spent two years working and training at a top relationship retreat in Europe where he underwent extensive training in relationship coaching. Andy is also trained to NLP Master Practitioner Level. His great passion is helping people and organisations move from to a place of deep authenticity. Andy is a Certified PRISM Brain Mapping Practitioner and an experienced Enneagram Teacher.

Andy and Di are passionate about their purpose and their journey together as soul mates. Through their organisation, Connect To Your Potential, they enable individuals, couples, families and businesses to overcome the challenges that life and relationships bring, connect with their purpose, and step into their fullest potential.

They have been featured in the centre pages of the Daily Express, Kindred Spirit magazine, High Spirit magazine, Soul & Spirit magazine, Take a Break magazine, Tree of Life magazine and The Vision Board book.  They’ve also been interviewed many times on BBC Radio, other radio stations and webcasts.

This is what some more of our Relationship Breakthrough Couples had to say:

Here are two testimonials from a Relationship Breakthrough Experience couple called Paul and Anna:

Paul: We are in our 50s and needed to overcome a stuck relationship that was close to break-up. We wanted some concentrated relationship coaching that would give us a chance to find what we had lost. The thought of an hour or two per week for 8 or 10 weeks marriage counselling did not seem to be the level of commitment that our 23 year relationship deserved. Di and Andy’s Breakthrough Experience was what we chose instead. They are a great couple who look after you very well over several days of coaching. We stayed 2 nights with them, had lovely meals and some very nice walks, but most importantly learned a great deal about what makes our relationship tick, and also what doesn’t. It was game changing for us, and has given us an understanding of what we each need and don’t need in order for our relationship to really develop. We now have a great chance of resolving our challenges. I don’t have any reservations about recommending you contact Di and Andy. They are really switched on and adapt to different couple’s needs. Thank you both, Paul.

Anna: Hi Andy and Di, I would like to say that the Breakthrough Experience was a gift to me. You managed to support and mentor us through some really difficult issues. The significance to me was that the problems and issues between us appeared intractable at both an emotional and logistical level. Yet we both came away with real hope and determination to move on together in life with new positive bonds of mutual love, understanding and appreciation of each other. It was so good to work with you as a couple committed to this work and actually practising what you preach. It helped me enormously to hear about the experiences you went through together – the highs and the lows. You gave us your time, empathy, energy and enthusiasm and really looked after us through it all. You showed us a way forward which we would not have found through the conventional couple counselling – which we have tried several times! I would recommend you to any couple who are facing issues in their relationship. A heartfelt thank you. Anna”

I am falling in love again every day… Having been married for 8 years, dating for 16 years, we had most definitely become so comfortable with each other that we were swaying more towards taking each other for granted. Adding two young children into the mix, careers, financial responsibilities etc, we could see that rather than growing closer we were beginning to grow apart. Our communication was rare and when it did occur it was laced in blame and feelings of neglect. The Relationship Breakthrough has been a huge blessing to us. Something shifted in us both – all I can say is that I walked away feeling a deeper sense of understanding of my wonderful husband, respecting his needs and learning how to communicate with each other. I feel that I have the tools now to build on not just a happy marriage, but one that is filled with joy with my soul mate. I am excited and enthusiastic about growing old together and truly feel that I am falling in love again every day. Thank you so much Di and Andy – you truly are a wonder! S & P, London

Frequently Asked Questions

How do we take our sessions? Each session lasts between 60 – 90 minutes. It is delivered over Skype, Facebook video call or telephone plus e-mail. Prior to each session you will receive the workbook for that module of the course, which will contain the exercises we’ll be covering together during that session. You will also receive your homework, which I will require to be completed and returned to me at least 24 hours prior to your next session. There will be e-mail support throughout the programme if you feel stuck on any section of the course. You can take this Breakthrough Experience in the comfort of your own home and at times which suit.

How often should we take our sessions? Our recommendation would be to take at least one session per week, so that the previous week’s content remains fresh in your mind. This way you are able to embrace the course content over a seven week period, or sooner.

Is the course delivered by both of you? The Seven Week Breakthrough Experience for Individuals is delivered by both Andrew and Diane.

Is this course delivered by you personally, or is it pre-recorded? The course is delivered by both of us personally on a two-to-two basis. Nothing is pre-recorded. This is tailored to you as a unique couple.

Will I need to do anything beforehand? Yes, we will send you each a questionnaire to complete which will need to be returned by email a minimum of 72 hours prior to your course commencing. This allows us to know in advance the main areas you’d like to work on, and if there are any issues in particular that you’d like to resolve. We can then ensure we tailor your coursework around your specific needs. It also saves us valuable time on the breakthrough sessions, because it allows us to get started on the actual coursework as soon as we begin our first session. We will also send you both our Enneagram Test to complete.

How do I pay? Payment is required in full by bank transfer around one week prior to your course commencing. As soon as payment is received, we will send you the pre-work to be completed, which we will need to be returned to us at least 72 hours prior to your first session. Note: you are welcome to pay by Paypal invoice if you prefer this to a bank transfer, which you can settle by debit or credit card, but we would need to add an extra 3.4% to cover the Paypal fees.

How do I book? If you would like to chat with us about the Seven Week Breakthrough Experience for Couples, then please feel free to contact us. You can also contact us via our Online Chat facility – check the ‘chat widget’ (bottom right) to see if we are online now, or leave us a message.

Can we do this course face to face? Yes, absolutely. We deliver the Breakthrough Experience face to face with couples over a 48 or 72 hour period from our home in Inverness. You can find all the information on our Breakthrough Experience for Couples page.

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